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They were more positive both in the way that they introduced a disagreement and in the way that they responded to criticism, and they remained more positive afterward.

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The researchers, led by Geraldine Downey, found that insecure people were the ones most likely looiing act negatively. Read: What does it mean to be ready for a relationship?

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As a group, those who divorced had been a third more affectionate during the chesapeake sexy chat years than the ones who went on to have long, happy marriages. They could list as many traits as they wanted, but were told it was fine to name just one. To get through the bad stuff, you need to stop the negative spiral before it begins. As always in such studies, both partners were later informed of the deception, so nobody went home unhappy.

Once they heard all that scribbling behind their backs, they sattification their partners might reject them, and that fear took over. These reactions were cataloged in a study of New York City couples who were videotaped in a lab at Columbia Sstification as they discussed their problems. Their relationships were among the strongest to begin with, but they fell apart rapidly. Head for the exit.

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Explore Our Products. They assumed their partners would judge them as harshly as they judged themselves. The successful marriages are defined not by improvement, but mtual avoiding decline. Over the long haul, though, those tender early feelings were not a reliable harbinger. The other partners were given a much different task: listing all the things in sex chat roullet home.

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Let it slide and hope things improve. This may take more imagination. It was how they dealt with the negative stuff—their doubts, their frustrations, their problems—that predicted whether the heavenly escorts would survive. They felt less close, less trustful, and less optimistic about the relationship.

These couples, in central Pennsylvania, were interviewed mutuwl their first two years of marriage by psychologists sandy escort cataloged both the positive and negative aspects of the relationships. The thrill of infatuation fades, so the euphoria that initially bonded a couple cannot sustain them over the decades, but most couples find other sources of contentment and remain satisfied overall just not as satisfied as at the beginning.

Those looknig form a matrix used in a classic study of how dating couples deal with problems. Some couples, of course, are better off splitting up, but far too many of them sabotage a relationship that could have worked. This article is adapted from John Tierney and Roy F.

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Their panicky response was to push away their satificaation unfortunate success, as the researchers found by following couples over several years. They typically wrote down one or two things about their partners that were less than ideal, and then they put down their pens.

Say nothing, but emotionally withdraw from your partner. People sensitive to rejection were especially likely to end up alone.

Some of the people were already ambivalent or hostile toward their partners—and tended to get divorced quickly—but most couples showed lots of mutual satificatipn and went on to celebrate several anniversaries. By watching sore spouses bicker, researchers have noticed a pattern of gender differences.

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Meanwhile, the other partners were sitting there with nothing to do but listen to the scribbling—and assume that it must be a thorough inventory of their personal failings. Sometimes, though, the decline in satisfaction is so steep that it dooms a marriage.

Threaten to break up, or start looking for another partner. Other researchers have found that when partners are separately asked to ponder satiifcation of their relationship, they spend much more time contemplating the bad than the good. Remaining passively loyal had no discernible impact on the lookkng of the relationship; actively trying to work out a kansas city escort listings improved things only a little.

To test a theory, the psychologists Sandra Murray and John Holmes brought couples into a lab and gave them questionnaires to be filled out at tables arranged so that the partners sat with their backs to each other.

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To protect themselves, they changed their own attitudes. But when you silently withdraw from your partner or chat room etiquette angry threats, you can start a disastrous spiral of retaliation. Psychologists at the University of Kentucky identified two general strategies, constructive or destructive, each of which could be either passive or active.

Being able to hold your tongue rather than say something nasty or spiteful will do much more for your relationship than a good word or deed. Imagine you are dating someone who does something that annoys you. Perhaps your partner is a spendthrift, or flirts with your friends, or zones out in the middle of your stories.